At a Real Colors® seminar, sponsored by local Mediation Services of Eastern Iowa, twenty participants – mainly mediators – looked at temperament as a predictor of how we communicate and relate to conflict. Thank goodness we dragged some spouses along, otherwise the room would have been a sea of blue. Let me backtrack to explain the blueness of our group. According to Real Colors®, human temperament breaks into four groups, each represented by a different color. Which color are you?